I have nothing to say.
...okay not true, because I always have something to say. Whether it's important or not!
Anyway, Knit toques in summer. What the fuck? Is this seriously a look that your want to portray? It's ridiculous. It's dumb. If I wore shorts and crocks in the middle of winter, but still pretended I was super-hip, you'd all think I was an asshole. It's the equivalent of Ontario people who say the like the cold. Shut up! It sucks.
The whole Vancouver Vs Toronto thing has got to stop. First of all to the players on both side of the table...If you haven't lived in both places you're not allowed to play. Don't give me some shit about how the people are rude in "the centre of the universe", but you're judging me like my previous job was GM of the Maple Leafs. Some jack ass here started a petition to get a baseball team in Vancouver, and his tag was, "we can beat Toronto!" At what. World Series wins? So stupid. Now to all the people that live back in the T.O., please don't find the most beautiful parts of B.C. and say you don't like it. I think mountains are dumb, and I hate the beach. Nobody hates the beach!!
And we can go in the water here, granted it's fucking freezing.(I thought you like the cold!)
I'm hooked on America's Got Talent. I think it's how they should decide on everything in the USA. More People voted for the velvet voiced Landau Eugene Murphy Jr, than for any republican candidate. Fuck this every four year thingy, every year new guy voted on by the people, for the people.
My biggest guilty pleasure right now is watching inflated pride. People that think (ugh, KNOW) they are smarter and better than the masses. Those people that shout into there smartphones on the street. Or don't text in a club. People that look around the room to make sure that at least one other person can see how awesome they are. Guys that have bulge of beer dripping over a cinched in belt, screaming what Peyton Manning should've done. Of course you know, you drive a truck. These people light up my life. You should thumb your nose at me for not knowing about different kinds of lox, you work at Safeway. You're the garbage man, why wouldn't I listen to your advice about my car. Because of all of these reasons, and more(the more being my wife's choice of TV) I can now openly admit... I watch Bachelor Pad!!
This might truly be one of the great gems in television. Other reality shows may be as good, but I wouldn't know. They bother me. Big Brother, more like Oh Brother. Survivor? Come on. Leave these idiots on an island and come back in a month. There's your winner. Hell, that imbecile from The View is famous from being on that show. Theses people on the Pad are unreal. First of all, they all talk as if something they are saying or doing is actually important, or relevant. They then say vulnerable things about themselves, all while being filmed. It's awesome. They think so highly of themselves, and the way they "play the game". I hope that they watch the show when it airs, but I'm sure they won't find it as funny as I do. As a student of writing for Film and Television, I can say this...You Could Not Write This Shit!!
It's that *good!
* by good I mean Bad
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
so much to say
It's been a while since we've talked, but I thought that I would check in...
Back kickin it on the west coast and all is good...except the weather. I made a lot of wild promises about Vancouver and for some reason the lack of sun has come a bit too early. That being said, it's not 40 with a humidex of 900, and we're not planted in front of the air conditioner. Those days in Toronto are like someone shoving a hair dryer in your mouth, while wearing a wool snuggy, and blasting lasers into your retinas. So no real complaints yet.
The best part of being somewhere(kinda) new, is wearing the rose colored glasses while enjoying the city. The wife and kids arrived the day of the "Stanley cup riots", but didn't see anything because they fell asleep from jet lag. The next day all of the nice Vancouverites had the city cleaned up before they saw anything. They thought people swept the streets every morning. (and they still think that!)
A couple of rants.
pot heads) Okay I get it. It's B.C. and everyone knows everyone, that has a grow-op, blah blah blah. I'm all for the legalization, and taxation, and I don't even smoke. However, I think the stigma is gone so the secretive, hoody pulled down act can go. I don't think you're tough, I think you're a douche. Oh you're a drug dealer on the eastside, I think I'd rather work at KFC. Also making "Cannabis Day" June 1st is fuckin disrespectful! Pick another date you degenerates. You can celebrate Canada day on the 1st, then get high every other day, like you're going to do anyway!!! Only a bunch of unpatriotic idiots think smoking pot in public is some sort of risque thing...as I said it's B.C. It smells like pot on the streets of every neighborhood.
commuters) Sure it's fuckin douche in Toronto, and they'll step on your mother to get on the street car first, but here it's the exact opposite. If you're late in Vancouver, don't expect to find the fast lane among your fellow morning folk. You're late for a $20k class of watching the Simpsons, and everyone on the sky walk is dilly-dallying. You'd think with all the coffee sold in this town people would be walking faster. (Deep Breath)
I'm okay.
I really don't have a lot to complain about...I take the sea bus to a film school. And I love it. My family is here now, so I'm not drinking myself into a Hemingway...
Three wonderful women had there babies over the past week or so...
congrats to Tara(twins), Chantal, and Dani...boys for the lot of them!!
On a very sad note we lost someone very close to our group. Kevyn and Stacy of http://www.thebestlifeever.com/
lost a member of the immediate family. Cassius was beyond a loyal friend, she was a pillar in their relationship. Whether it was lazy Sundays at baseball, or late night swimming Cassius was there. She held herself with grace and humility, and was an amazing role model and friend to my daughter. You will be greatly missed.
Back kickin it on the west coast and all is good...except the weather. I made a lot of wild promises about Vancouver and for some reason the lack of sun has come a bit too early. That being said, it's not 40 with a humidex of 900, and we're not planted in front of the air conditioner. Those days in Toronto are like someone shoving a hair dryer in your mouth, while wearing a wool snuggy, and blasting lasers into your retinas. So no real complaints yet.
The best part of being somewhere(kinda) new, is wearing the rose colored glasses while enjoying the city. The wife and kids arrived the day of the "Stanley cup riots", but didn't see anything because they fell asleep from jet lag. The next day all of the nice Vancouverites had the city cleaned up before they saw anything. They thought people swept the streets every morning. (and they still think that!)
A couple of rants.
pot heads) Okay I get it. It's B.C. and everyone knows everyone, that has a grow-op, blah blah blah. I'm all for the legalization, and taxation, and I don't even smoke. However, I think the stigma is gone so the secretive, hoody pulled down act can go. I don't think you're tough, I think you're a douche. Oh you're a drug dealer on the eastside, I think I'd rather work at KFC. Also making "Cannabis Day" June 1st is fuckin disrespectful! Pick another date you degenerates. You can celebrate Canada day on the 1st, then get high every other day, like you're going to do anyway!!! Only a bunch of unpatriotic idiots think smoking pot in public is some sort of risque thing...as I said it's B.C. It smells like pot on the streets of every neighborhood.
commuters) Sure it's fuckin douche in Toronto, and they'll step on your mother to get on the street car first, but here it's the exact opposite. If you're late in Vancouver, don't expect to find the fast lane among your fellow morning folk. You're late for a $20k class of watching the Simpsons, and everyone on the sky walk is dilly-dallying. You'd think with all the coffee sold in this town people would be walking faster. (Deep Breath)
I'm okay.
I really don't have a lot to complain about...I take the sea bus to a film school. And I love it. My family is here now, so I'm not drinking myself into a Hemingway...
Three wonderful women had there babies over the past week or so...
congrats to Tara(twins), Chantal, and Dani...boys for the lot of them!!
On a very sad note we lost someone very close to our group. Kevyn and Stacy of http://www.thebestlifeever.com/
lost a member of the immediate family. Cassius was beyond a loyal friend, she was a pillar in their relationship. Whether it was lazy Sundays at baseball, or late night swimming Cassius was there. She held herself with grace and humility, and was an amazing role model and friend to my daughter. You will be greatly missed.
Sunday, May 8, 2011
back to school...
Wow. Who would think that a course on writing would keep me so far away from actually doing it. Don't get me wrong it's awesome! I love the idea of braking down stories, characters and scripts. Shit, have the classes are watching movies, so no complaining. My head is spinning around so fast I can barely keep up to my own narrative. Assignments and deadlines now actually exist, unlike when I would create them on my own. Then miss them. Crash courses in high school English, and pep talks about not being a douche to your fellow classmates. After all, one day you might need them. The coles notes are this....learn the rules and the existing structure, then you can disregard Industry standards.
Okay, enough of the that shit. Let the ranting continue.
On the 26th of April me and friend headed for the west coast from Toronto. I suckered him in with promises of Chicago Cubs in Wrigley field and the possibility of good conversation. Chicago was awesome. I could've slipped right into a life there as long as the word "Gun" never came up. It was very much like Toronto in personality, and architecture. The people were fantastic, and nobody tried to kill me even though it was game 7 of the Canucks vs Blackhawks. I pretended to be a Chi fan and even did some "cheering" when Toews scored near the end of the game. Finally those lost years in acting school were paying off, and probably saving my life. Of course when Burrows eventually potted the winner, the bar rang silent. I skipped off to the bathroom, head sagging in disappointment, then mimed a victory dance in a washroom stall. The first leg of our journey had ended, and now it was the dreaded 94east highway of boredom.
I'm sure that places like Minnesota, and North Dakota are actually really nice, and the people are probably fantastic. It wasn't them, it was us. We were hungover and the highlight was over after the first night. Sure the Painted Canyons were beautiful. The waitress in St.Cloud was pleasant. From that point on we knew what to expect. The third night we stayed in Billings Montana, and apparently every open door is a casino. The women's prison is downtown, you can smoke everywhere, and the word "hockey" has absolutely no meaning. We eventually got the waitress in the bar to find the game, and every rifle toting patron looked at us like it was the pride parade, but we stood tall, and cheered quietly.
The next morning was going to be a big push. We'd fucked our schedule by being hungover on day two, which was supposed to be our longest day, but became our shortest. Now we were going to try and make it all the way to Vancouver by later that evening. There were elongated silences while we gathered ourselves mentally for what we were attempting. Immediately around the first turn were massive mountains. I knew there would be some, but not this size. Most of the land leading to that corner was fairly flat. There were indications that there would be some elevations, but I was shocked. Granted it has been a while since I've seen mountains of any kind, let alone monsters. All of a sudden we realized that we knew nothing of western Montana, and had no idea that we would be driving through the pan handle of Idaho. And that Idaho had mountains....big fucking mountains. I didn't see a potato anywhere! The new highlight of our journey was this little town off the highway in Idaho called Wallace. It looked as though they were filming an old movie there. All the buildings, and houses were from the 40's. It was crazy. It would be worth the drive out there to stay a few days in historic Wallace.
After that we were in to the 500miles of home stretch. Washington was a sight for sore eyes, and I was thoroughly impressed with gigantic wind farm. It looked so cool. We both started to fade quick in Washington. Sure the GPS, Marilyn, was setting us up for an arrival time of 11:00, but it seemed very far away. The street turned in highway and the peaceful drive through empty spaces was no replaced with the intermittent wipers on the outskirts of Seattle. Seattle was too close, we couldn't give up. We were now heading north, and the signs were counting down to the border. I couldn't wait to be on home soil. Drink a double-double from Timmies, be able to read the road sign without doing math, not fear rednecks. From the border crossing I could see the lights on the mountain guiding me home. I cracked the window to smell the sea air, and two guys had been living in that car for a long time. I was rejuvenated driving along a street I grew up being on.
We rode Granville right into the city center to visit a friend at his bar. I changed out of my sweat pants and tried to smell better, but it most likely didn't improve. Thank god we were in the hippy capital of Canada. As the beer touched my lips I knew that I couldn't drink it without drinking 40. Ben Smashed back his, and mine and those almost sunk him. We were beat down, tired, and looked dishevelled. We quickly returned to the car for the final ten minutes of our trip. My sister and her boyfriend Chris awaited our arrival with iced cold Kokanee, and roaring fire. Chris lives in this tree-lined house with six foot fences keeping the people out. The path down to the house is led by hanging lights under the over grown branches that create the coolest archway. Guarding the property are two full blooded wolves, Tundra and Tonka. These are the most gorgeous animals, that howl in tune with distant sirens. I thought I'd maybe fallen asleep at a stop sign and had drifted into Narnia. Of course the B.C. hospitality is gracious, and caring. We ate, we slept. Our journey across the country had ended. It was a wonderful surprise that most of the geography was unknown by either of us, and we think we're smart. We agreed on most things, we solved Major League Baseballs biggest problems, and learned that using your cel phone in the US can be very costly.
Being here is very bitter sweet for me. It's what I've wanted for a long time, and Film School is an added bonus. Yet, my little ones and partner aren't here. The gorgeous views, and breath taking mountains are lost when you don't have those you love there to share them. The positive is that it's almost been two weeks, which means that there's only about four to go! Soon we'll be riding bikes around Stanley Park, and playing at Kits beach. Until then I'm going to put my head down, and study. Hopefully the magic of Narnia will speed up the time.
PS- it's Mothers Day. 13 years ago on May 5th my mother died. Her funeral was the Saturday and the following day was Mother's Day, so this day absolutely sucks for me. It has taken on a new meaning since having kids....but still sucks. So please take the time to tell your mother that you love her. Simply because there are plenty of people who cannot. If your Mother has passed, then I raise my glass with you...
Okay, enough of the that shit. Let the ranting continue.
On the 26th of April me and friend headed for the west coast from Toronto. I suckered him in with promises of Chicago Cubs in Wrigley field and the possibility of good conversation. Chicago was awesome. I could've slipped right into a life there as long as the word "Gun" never came up. It was very much like Toronto in personality, and architecture. The people were fantastic, and nobody tried to kill me even though it was game 7 of the Canucks vs Blackhawks. I pretended to be a Chi fan and even did some "cheering" when Toews scored near the end of the game. Finally those lost years in acting school were paying off, and probably saving my life. Of course when Burrows eventually potted the winner, the bar rang silent. I skipped off to the bathroom, head sagging in disappointment, then mimed a victory dance in a washroom stall. The first leg of our journey had ended, and now it was the dreaded 94east highway of boredom.
I'm sure that places like Minnesota, and North Dakota are actually really nice, and the people are probably fantastic. It wasn't them, it was us. We were hungover and the highlight was over after the first night. Sure the Painted Canyons were beautiful. The waitress in St.Cloud was pleasant. From that point on we knew what to expect. The third night we stayed in Billings Montana, and apparently every open door is a casino. The women's prison is downtown, you can smoke everywhere, and the word "hockey" has absolutely no meaning. We eventually got the waitress in the bar to find the game, and every rifle toting patron looked at us like it was the pride parade, but we stood tall, and cheered quietly.
The next morning was going to be a big push. We'd fucked our schedule by being hungover on day two, which was supposed to be our longest day, but became our shortest. Now we were going to try and make it all the way to Vancouver by later that evening. There were elongated silences while we gathered ourselves mentally for what we were attempting. Immediately around the first turn were massive mountains. I knew there would be some, but not this size. Most of the land leading to that corner was fairly flat. There were indications that there would be some elevations, but I was shocked. Granted it has been a while since I've seen mountains of any kind, let alone monsters. All of a sudden we realized that we knew nothing of western Montana, and had no idea that we would be driving through the pan handle of Idaho. And that Idaho had mountains....big fucking mountains. I didn't see a potato anywhere! The new highlight of our journey was this little town off the highway in Idaho called Wallace. It looked as though they were filming an old movie there. All the buildings, and houses were from the 40's. It was crazy. It would be worth the drive out there to stay a few days in historic Wallace.
After that we were in to the 500miles of home stretch. Washington was a sight for sore eyes, and I was thoroughly impressed with gigantic wind farm. It looked so cool. We both started to fade quick in Washington. Sure the GPS, Marilyn, was setting us up for an arrival time of 11:00, but it seemed very far away. The street turned in highway and the peaceful drive through empty spaces was no replaced with the intermittent wipers on the outskirts of Seattle. Seattle was too close, we couldn't give up. We were now heading north, and the signs were counting down to the border. I couldn't wait to be on home soil. Drink a double-double from Timmies, be able to read the road sign without doing math, not fear rednecks. From the border crossing I could see the lights on the mountain guiding me home. I cracked the window to smell the sea air, and two guys had been living in that car for a long time. I was rejuvenated driving along a street I grew up being on.
We rode Granville right into the city center to visit a friend at his bar. I changed out of my sweat pants and tried to smell better, but it most likely didn't improve. Thank god we were in the hippy capital of Canada. As the beer touched my lips I knew that I couldn't drink it without drinking 40. Ben Smashed back his, and mine and those almost sunk him. We were beat down, tired, and looked dishevelled. We quickly returned to the car for the final ten minutes of our trip. My sister and her boyfriend Chris awaited our arrival with iced cold Kokanee, and roaring fire. Chris lives in this tree-lined house with six foot fences keeping the people out. The path down to the house is led by hanging lights under the over grown branches that create the coolest archway. Guarding the property are two full blooded wolves, Tundra and Tonka. These are the most gorgeous animals, that howl in tune with distant sirens. I thought I'd maybe fallen asleep at a stop sign and had drifted into Narnia. Of course the B.C. hospitality is gracious, and caring. We ate, we slept. Our journey across the country had ended. It was a wonderful surprise that most of the geography was unknown by either of us, and we think we're smart. We agreed on most things, we solved Major League Baseballs biggest problems, and learned that using your cel phone in the US can be very costly.
Being here is very bitter sweet for me. It's what I've wanted for a long time, and Film School is an added bonus. Yet, my little ones and partner aren't here. The gorgeous views, and breath taking mountains are lost when you don't have those you love there to share them. The positive is that it's almost been two weeks, which means that there's only about four to go! Soon we'll be riding bikes around Stanley Park, and playing at Kits beach. Until then I'm going to put my head down, and study. Hopefully the magic of Narnia will speed up the time.
PS- it's Mothers Day. 13 years ago on May 5th my mother died. Her funeral was the Saturday and the following day was Mother's Day, so this day absolutely sucks for me. It has taken on a new meaning since having kids....but still sucks. So please take the time to tell your mother that you love her. Simply because there are plenty of people who cannot. If your Mother has passed, then I raise my glass with you...
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
it's been one week...
This past week has been one for the books. I finished my full-time job to pursue, a full-time career as a writer. I'm frightened, nervous, and more than a little scared. I keep finding myself nodding off to sleep just to try and stop thinking about the upcoming events. The people that I leave behind at that restaurant are some very important people. Not only have they supported my writing, they also showed me a lot of Love, and respect as their manager. As always I hope for the best for all of them. I hope they all have the opportunity such as I have to follow their dreams. I realize that it isn't pressure that is on me from people, it's hope. They've all wished me the best and hope that I can achieve a certain amount of success. Enough to house them all to a party at my Malibu mansion, next door to Justin Bieber. We had a shindig on Sunday in which way too much Guinness was ingested, but it was a wonderful event. My drunken words, boob-gazing and off tune singing will most likely be forgotten, except for from my wife who was sober. Poor girl. She told me that while passed out on the couch, I grinned from ear to ear like a school boy.
The impact of this change has penetrated my subconscious as well. Last night I had the greatest restaurant dream of all time. It's notorious in the serving industry to have nightmares in which you are serving a 14 table section of constant complainers, and people wanting refills, while the kitchen is through a Forrest, and you can never stop being sat. It happens all through the night and when you finally wake up, you're exhausted, and probably have to go to work. Last nights dream started the same as always. I had a big section, three parties, new menu, triple sat, etc. As the first table started to give me attitude, I snickered(in the dream!!) and told them I didn't care. I told them it was my last shift, and then I walked away. Everyone was "disappointed" and I honest to God didn't care. It was some sort of cleansing, and I've stopped stalking that bitch that yelled at me two Sundays ago. I'm getting to old to actually shit on someones lawn, and I shouldn't have promised to.
When I was a young lad, I used to do prep at the Keg in Maple Ridge and I was the youngest person back there. I was surrounded by mid-thirties prep cooks that exhausted the classic rock hour on 99.3 TheFox radio station. The one lady use to sit there and laugh while I talked nonstop about absolutely nothing. She said to me that I should be a story teller, or something "on TV" It always stuck with me. Here was this woman, who knew nothing about me personally, telling me that she thought I could succeed. I know it sounds a little self-absorbed, but I'm feeling a little low. I'm trying to feed off the confidence that others have in me. And it's not like me to not think highly of my ability. I'm usually the first person to want to hear my own voice.(it's very soothing....it's why I deliberately talk in my sleep) Granted I have a few days in my car to get up the confidence to believe in myself.
Last night was a very difficult time though. I laid in bed with a kid under each arm and thought about the 52 days I'm going to be without thems. That's a lot. I know, I know....people do it all the time. People go off to war, or jail, or jobs that keep them away from their families and they get through. It's just never happened to me before. As Alex grabbed my hand with his little fingers and brought me to his bed for sleep time, I welled up with tears. I mean Elizabeth can talk to me, tell me how she feels, but he just wants crackers and Dora the Explorer. I'll miss his little words, and goofball behaviour. He's going to be growing, and learning, and developing...I just have to believe that I'm creating a job(and hopefully a paycheck) that provides him with a better life. I have to truly believe that the real reason for all of this is for these two. That one day they can have the kind of nonsense reality show based off their fathers success\failure. As Tracey Jordan once said, "I just want to make enough money so that my kids don't have to go to school"
All jokes aside, this is my final week in Ontario for a while. I gotta nothin to pack, I'm scared and have been breathing into a paper bag all morning. The next two months may produce a shit-load of emotional blogs, but I will continue, and I hope that you'll enjoy my journey. Now I gotta go lay down...
The impact of this change has penetrated my subconscious as well. Last night I had the greatest restaurant dream of all time. It's notorious in the serving industry to have nightmares in which you are serving a 14 table section of constant complainers, and people wanting refills, while the kitchen is through a Forrest, and you can never stop being sat. It happens all through the night and when you finally wake up, you're exhausted, and probably have to go to work. Last nights dream started the same as always. I had a big section, three parties, new menu, triple sat, etc. As the first table started to give me attitude, I snickered(in the dream!!) and told them I didn't care. I told them it was my last shift, and then I walked away. Everyone was "disappointed" and I honest to God didn't care. It was some sort of cleansing, and I've stopped stalking that bitch that yelled at me two Sundays ago. I'm getting to old to actually shit on someones lawn, and I shouldn't have promised to.
When I was a young lad, I used to do prep at the Keg in Maple Ridge and I was the youngest person back there. I was surrounded by mid-thirties prep cooks that exhausted the classic rock hour on 99.3 TheFox radio station. The one lady use to sit there and laugh while I talked nonstop about absolutely nothing. She said to me that I should be a story teller, or something "on TV" It always stuck with me. Here was this woman, who knew nothing about me personally, telling me that she thought I could succeed. I know it sounds a little self-absorbed, but I'm feeling a little low. I'm trying to feed off the confidence that others have in me. And it's not like me to not think highly of my ability. I'm usually the first person to want to hear my own voice.(it's very soothing....it's why I deliberately talk in my sleep) Granted I have a few days in my car to get up the confidence to believe in myself.
Last night was a very difficult time though. I laid in bed with a kid under each arm and thought about the 52 days I'm going to be without thems. That's a lot. I know, I know....people do it all the time. People go off to war, or jail, or jobs that keep them away from their families and they get through. It's just never happened to me before. As Alex grabbed my hand with his little fingers and brought me to his bed for sleep time, I welled up with tears. I mean Elizabeth can talk to me, tell me how she feels, but he just wants crackers and Dora the Explorer. I'll miss his little words, and goofball behaviour. He's going to be growing, and learning, and developing...I just have to believe that I'm creating a job(and hopefully a paycheck) that provides him with a better life. I have to truly believe that the real reason for all of this is for these two. That one day they can have the kind of nonsense reality show based off their fathers success\failure. As Tracey Jordan once said, "I just want to make enough money so that my kids don't have to go to school"
All jokes aside, this is my final week in Ontario for a while. I gotta nothin to pack, I'm scared and have been breathing into a paper bag all morning. The next two months may produce a shit-load of emotional blogs, but I will continue, and I hope that you'll enjoy my journey. Now I gotta go lay down...
Thursday, April 14, 2011
and the weiner is....
Alright, I've been trying my best to stay away from the ins and outs of the political bullshit of our country, but it's bubbled over. I get that people draw distinct lines in the sand about who the vote for, why, and everything else, but aren't we endanger of heading down the comical road of a FOX NEWS north? The SUN media channel is going to be spitting mouthfuls of incendiary bullets at all kinds of topics in order to achieve some sort of personal success. These television personalities are going to believe, and say whatever continues to garner them a paycheck. We have multiple parties and multiple points of view. This mainstreaming of issues to separate sides is going to narrow the field down to two. Of course I understand that it's usually down to two anyway, but the idea that we are truly free to decide amongst 4 or 5 has always been something I celebrated about Canada.
Of course the candidates are the same faces. One that cares only about one province and secures a shitload of money and seats for a particular group of people, and makes no bones about it. Kinda makes it funny that he would oppose anyone on any other topic considering that he's like the "only child" and just keeps yelling mine. You've got the dude with the eyebrows. He sounds like he's got some good ideas, and represents a little of my personal social beliefs, but his delivery is a touch scary. There's the current PM and stiff. This guy looks as if he's never had a fun day in his life. I've said it before...He's just a kid that didn't get to play with the cool kids so he became Prime Minister just to fuck with them. There's little bald guy, who's intentions are always good. The NDP always seem like they've got the best ideas, solutions, and the best outlook for Canada. But I worry that when they get the keys, they're going to crash us in to the ditch and claim they don't know how to drive standard. And of course the smartest, and most focused on the people and our land Elizabeth May...if only she was allowed to speak in public.
So what to do? Listen to the conservative nut-jobs that get so angry because you believe in something other than their beliefs? Read the Toronto Sun where Fuck-Face Brian Lilley(soon to be the Canadian Glenn Beck) who took Ignatieff's quote, " Let some Flowers bloom here" and claimed that it was close enough to Zedong Mao's slogan for a campaign called A Hundred Flower Movement. He then took this slogan chopped in half and used it to call Ignatieff a communist sympathizer. I guess something gets lost in translation, but if works for the cause, whatever. I've read some of Brian Lilley work and even in the article he used words that were quite often used by Hitler! I think it's safe to draw a direct line between Brian Lilley using the phrase, "other's followed" with the forming of the Nazi Party. Hey look, I'm a journalist! I guess accuracy in the quote or it's proper translation aren't necessary. After all American politicians have taught us anything is that you can say anything as long as "was not intended to be a factual statement." (see US SEN Jon Kyl) Brian Lilley has job and that job is to get Harper re-elected and sell newspapers. He also has been linked to the SS (by me) and has touched baby goats with the tip of his penis(not intended to be a factual statement) His article is inflammatory, and his references are stretched. Is he just as hard on Harper?
I'm sure that SUN media's new channel will fill us with a wonderful omelet of horse manure, and poppycock, but it still leaves me wondering which douche bag is the least douchiest. The truth is the generation that smoked pot, wants it to be illegal. The generation that believed in free love, tried to reverse Gay Marriage. They came from the seeds of arts and music, but claim "Ordinary folks don't care about the arts". Harper said that when he cut 45 million dollars from arts and culture, then went on to play piano with the youtube girl to swing the younger generation in his favour, but failed to tell her not to expect the government to aid her dream in anyway. I know, I know, I'm clearly not a Harper guy, but I'm not sure of anything. Now a days, I got think about what's best for me, my family, my career. Wait a minute....Writer is an artist. I wonder if Brian Lilley knows that, especially since he'll be on TV soon too.
Of course the candidates are the same faces. One that cares only about one province and secures a shitload of money and seats for a particular group of people, and makes no bones about it. Kinda makes it funny that he would oppose anyone on any other topic considering that he's like the "only child" and just keeps yelling mine. You've got the dude with the eyebrows. He sounds like he's got some good ideas, and represents a little of my personal social beliefs, but his delivery is a touch scary. There's the current PM and stiff. This guy looks as if he's never had a fun day in his life. I've said it before...He's just a kid that didn't get to play with the cool kids so he became Prime Minister just to fuck with them. There's little bald guy, who's intentions are always good. The NDP always seem like they've got the best ideas, solutions, and the best outlook for Canada. But I worry that when they get the keys, they're going to crash us in to the ditch and claim they don't know how to drive standard. And of course the smartest, and most focused on the people and our land Elizabeth May...if only she was allowed to speak in public.
So what to do? Listen to the conservative nut-jobs that get so angry because you believe in something other than their beliefs? Read the Toronto Sun where Fuck-Face Brian Lilley(soon to be the Canadian Glenn Beck) who took Ignatieff's quote, " Let some Flowers bloom here" and claimed that it was close enough to Zedong Mao's slogan for a campaign called A Hundred Flower Movement. He then took this slogan chopped in half and used it to call Ignatieff a communist sympathizer. I guess something gets lost in translation, but if works for the cause, whatever. I've read some of Brian Lilley work and even in the article he used words that were quite often used by Hitler! I think it's safe to draw a direct line between Brian Lilley using the phrase, "other's followed" with the forming of the Nazi Party. Hey look, I'm a journalist! I guess accuracy in the quote or it's proper translation aren't necessary. After all American politicians have taught us anything is that you can say anything as long as "was not intended to be a factual statement." (see US SEN Jon Kyl) Brian Lilley has job and that job is to get Harper re-elected and sell newspapers. He also has been linked to the SS (by me) and has touched baby goats with the tip of his penis(not intended to be a factual statement) His article is inflammatory, and his references are stretched. Is he just as hard on Harper?
I'm sure that SUN media's new channel will fill us with a wonderful omelet of horse manure, and poppycock, but it still leaves me wondering which douche bag is the least douchiest. The truth is the generation that smoked pot, wants it to be illegal. The generation that believed in free love, tried to reverse Gay Marriage. They came from the seeds of arts and music, but claim "Ordinary folks don't care about the arts". Harper said that when he cut 45 million dollars from arts and culture, then went on to play piano with the youtube girl to swing the younger generation in his favour, but failed to tell her not to expect the government to aid her dream in anyway. I know, I know, I'm clearly not a Harper guy, but I'm not sure of anything. Now a days, I got think about what's best for me, my family, my career. Wait a minute....Writer is an artist. I wonder if Brian Lilley knows that, especially since he'll be on TV soon too.
Saturday, April 9, 2011
braxton hicks
Throughout the weeks preparing for a cross-country move I realized that I should start making lists. Things I need for the drive, for the first few months. How embarrassing to look at the essentials that you need, when there are only 3 things other than clothes on the list. Computer, Guitar, and...shit I can't think of the third thing. Brutal.
Fortunately I awoke to a wonderful day. Not because I have to stay out of my house while strangers pile through making comments about the stuff I've compiled. And not because I've traded in my afternoon nap for a pint and some wings, but because it's actually a beautiful day. The one thing about living in a winter wasteland is that when the weather breaks, and breaks for good, it can be an amazing revitalization of the soul. Other than those weirdos that claim to "Love" winter, the rest of us power through Seasonal Adjustment Disorder. Locked in a frostbitten world. Our cars are salt covered, our grass has been burnt by snow in some oxymoronic twist.
But then...
One day it's different. We're weary because there are a few teases along the way. A few days in which we don't have zip our jackets to the chin, or wear the second pair of gloves. But then it happens. You run to the car in just a long sleeve and you don't die. You open the door to get the morning paper without the fear that your nuts will lift inside you gullet. All of a sudden you have hope again. Hope that you'll be able to enjoy being outside without being bundled up like the Randy Parker from A Christmas Story. You wash your car, you clean up the dog shit, and garbage off your lawn because the snows melted. It's a new day.
Torontians have the same feeling each year, and the rebirth is a welcome change each spring. In the west coast we didn't have such distinct seasons. It never got super cold, and the ocean prevented the super hot. But southern Ontario draws clear lines in the sand. Today was that first day in what will be many, in which the warmth, humidity and sunshine begin to usurp winter's bone. It's the first day in which you nap with the window open. That cool breeze feathers your toes as you dream of snow capped mountains, the sunset over the ocean, and as much vegetarian food as one can get. (I can't wait to get to Vancouver!!) I'm glad that had a day like this before I left. It was inevitable, but just as the years before this one, I forget about it until it happened. In the same fashion that I try an educate people about how to behave in public, I hope to infuse a small amount of Toronto into the Vancouverites who loathe the Big Smoke. Especially the ones that have never been here. I know I've been spewing shit about Vancouver to the people here that think it rains everyday but three on the wet coast.
As I waste time between lunch and work, I realize I'd be foolish if I didn't take these next few weeks to revel the things I love here. It's like a break up, there are always going to be things that you love still, even if you're getting back with your ex after all these years. Of course the people mean everything. Even now, as I unsocially type this at a crowded bar, a beautiful friend\ waitress\ and possible gift bag thief, reminds me that she hates me, but will miss me. She's one of these gorgeous girls that knows and likes my wife so much, she dismisses my every advance. I'll miss her too. I've been getting a lot of the "I hate you, but congratulations" It's a wonderfully complicating show of respect and flattery....I hope.
I've said that I would blog about the change, the newness of being back home, but I'm going to be sure to remember all of the things here that have been so memorable. There is no doubt that there's plenty I'll miss. Plenty I'll wish I could be doing. Not to mention the friends that I associate with events, dates and places. In two weeks I begin another chapter in my life, with old friends and new family. If May 2nd, my first day of school, is the true rebirth, today was a pretty serious kick.
Fortunately I awoke to a wonderful day. Not because I have to stay out of my house while strangers pile through making comments about the stuff I've compiled. And not because I've traded in my afternoon nap for a pint and some wings, but because it's actually a beautiful day. The one thing about living in a winter wasteland is that when the weather breaks, and breaks for good, it can be an amazing revitalization of the soul. Other than those weirdos that claim to "Love" winter, the rest of us power through Seasonal Adjustment Disorder. Locked in a frostbitten world. Our cars are salt covered, our grass has been burnt by snow in some oxymoronic twist.
But then...
One day it's different. We're weary because there are a few teases along the way. A few days in which we don't have zip our jackets to the chin, or wear the second pair of gloves. But then it happens. You run to the car in just a long sleeve and you don't die. You open the door to get the morning paper without the fear that your nuts will lift inside you gullet. All of a sudden you have hope again. Hope that you'll be able to enjoy being outside without being bundled up like the Randy Parker from A Christmas Story. You wash your car, you clean up the dog shit, and garbage off your lawn because the snows melted. It's a new day.
Torontians have the same feeling each year, and the rebirth is a welcome change each spring. In the west coast we didn't have such distinct seasons. It never got super cold, and the ocean prevented the super hot. But southern Ontario draws clear lines in the sand. Today was that first day in what will be many, in which the warmth, humidity and sunshine begin to usurp winter's bone. It's the first day in which you nap with the window open. That cool breeze feathers your toes as you dream of snow capped mountains, the sunset over the ocean, and as much vegetarian food as one can get. (I can't wait to get to Vancouver!!) I'm glad that had a day like this before I left. It was inevitable, but just as the years before this one, I forget about it until it happened. In the same fashion that I try an educate people about how to behave in public, I hope to infuse a small amount of Toronto into the Vancouverites who loathe the Big Smoke. Especially the ones that have never been here. I know I've been spewing shit about Vancouver to the people here that think it rains everyday but three on the wet coast.
As I waste time between lunch and work, I realize I'd be foolish if I didn't take these next few weeks to revel the things I love here. It's like a break up, there are always going to be things that you love still, even if you're getting back with your ex after all these years. Of course the people mean everything. Even now, as I unsocially type this at a crowded bar, a beautiful friend\ waitress\ and possible gift bag thief, reminds me that she hates me, but will miss me. She's one of these gorgeous girls that knows and likes my wife so much, she dismisses my every advance. I'll miss her too. I've been getting a lot of the "I hate you, but congratulations" It's a wonderfully complicating show of respect and flattery....I hope.
I've said that I would blog about the change, the newness of being back home, but I'm going to be sure to remember all of the things here that have been so memorable. There is no doubt that there's plenty I'll miss. Plenty I'll wish I could be doing. Not to mention the friends that I associate with events, dates and places. In two weeks I begin another chapter in my life, with old friends and new family. If May 2nd, my first day of school, is the true rebirth, today was a pretty serious kick.
Friday, April 1, 2011
The dominos must fall...
The hardest part of the past few weeks wasn't keeping the secret of my move, but more the anxiety about it. It's funny that things that I've wanted to happen for a few years is now happening and I'm freaking out. Last Wednesday I had to put in my notice at work. It was a big step in the western direction. I don't love my job, but I do the people. I think that's universal for a lot of people. There's a tough exchange between loving what you do, and who you do it with, but if you find that you have both...stick with it! I was nervous to purposely become unemployed, but it had to happen. That night I explained to all that would listen about my upcoming changes. Then came Thursday, my day off. I wrote up the blog ch..changes, and sat back to endure the love and kudos from friends and family. It was a wonderful high. Many people encouraged the move even though it would be away from them. Many were happy that I was heading homeward and we would be face to face in just over a month.
Then came Friday....
Friday I was filled with complete and total fear. I started to question my decision, how plausible it would be. I paced back and forth on the hardwood, running the numbers through in my head. I gotta sell the house, then I gotta get a job, from there I have to pay X amount for rent, and Y amount has to be sent back to T for the mortgage if the house doesn't sell. There's the moving, the driving, the housing, the kids, the cat, the yard, gas money, hotels, food, I gotta bring my bike( it's Vancouver), I need a bike rack, a bag rack, a suitcase, a new computer, clean the bathroom, clean out the basement, wash my work clothes, shave, call the school, pay for school, get an umbrella, wear my Canucks jersey, how is T gonna get around without the car, I'd better fly. I'm afraid to fly, can my guitar go on the plane? what about my bike. How do you use SKYPE? Am I even a good enough writer to make a living at this, and do I have the money? Or do I have the money, and that's why they think I'm good enough..
By 8a.m. I was in a constant state of panic. My collar was tightening around my neck and I wasn't even wearing a shirt. Truthfully I don't have the answer to any of those problems, if there are any. I know that I have the support that I need to carry on. I know that the people that I love believe this will work, and they're good people. I know that I dreamt about having this chance, and I have it. A few weeks ago when I mockingly said that I would forget everyone if I got successful, I failed to remind everyone that I have a 1000 stories, and they are because of the people that I've met. The people I love and hate, those who don't like me, people I vehemently disagree with, people I inexplicably side with. People I worked with for one day, some for years. Some I've misjudged, some that have misjudged me. Lovers, friends, enemies, frenemies, family, associates, friends of friends, acquaintance's, hangers on, that dude that looks like that other dude, the guy who thinks I'm Rob, his girlfriend....
Ontario has been good to me. I've seen Toronto at its best and it's worst. And I'll never forget it. I know that some people around the country find things to hate about Toronto, and there are things, but why. The hockey team sucks, but there were celebrations up and down Yonge street that I'll never forget. I love Toronto Island, the Blue Jays, the Beaches. And I truly love the people that I'm been blessed to call my friends. The few months without my lil ones will be hard, but being away from those that have helped shape who I am, will be harder over time. I have encouraged them all to visit, some I've told to actually move west. I guess I shouldn't be greedy about the opportunity that I already have. But I will! Just like everything that has to happen in order for me to drive away, the dominoes that fall must be in place first. I can only influence my own circumstances. Twenty-five things off the list, twenty-five more added.
Then came Friday....
Friday I was filled with complete and total fear. I started to question my decision, how plausible it would be. I paced back and forth on the hardwood, running the numbers through in my head. I gotta sell the house, then I gotta get a job, from there I have to pay X amount for rent, and Y amount has to be sent back to T for the mortgage if the house doesn't sell. There's the moving, the driving, the housing, the kids, the cat, the yard, gas money, hotels, food, I gotta bring my bike( it's Vancouver), I need a bike rack, a bag rack, a suitcase, a new computer, clean the bathroom, clean out the basement, wash my work clothes, shave, call the school, pay for school, get an umbrella, wear my Canucks jersey, how is T gonna get around without the car, I'd better fly. I'm afraid to fly, can my guitar go on the plane? what about my bike. How do you use SKYPE? Am I even a good enough writer to make a living at this, and do I have the money? Or do I have the money, and that's why they think I'm good enough..
By 8a.m. I was in a constant state of panic. My collar was tightening around my neck and I wasn't even wearing a shirt. Truthfully I don't have the answer to any of those problems, if there are any. I know that I have the support that I need to carry on. I know that the people that I love believe this will work, and they're good people. I know that I dreamt about having this chance, and I have it. A few weeks ago when I mockingly said that I would forget everyone if I got successful, I failed to remind everyone that I have a 1000 stories, and they are because of the people that I've met. The people I love and hate, those who don't like me, people I vehemently disagree with, people I inexplicably side with. People I worked with for one day, some for years. Some I've misjudged, some that have misjudged me. Lovers, friends, enemies, frenemies, family, associates, friends of friends, acquaintance's, hangers on, that dude that looks like that other dude, the guy who thinks I'm Rob, his girlfriend....
Ontario has been good to me. I've seen Toronto at its best and it's worst. And I'll never forget it. I know that some people around the country find things to hate about Toronto, and there are things, but why. The hockey team sucks, but there were celebrations up and down Yonge street that I'll never forget. I love Toronto Island, the Blue Jays, the Beaches. And I truly love the people that I'm been blessed to call my friends. The few months without my lil ones will be hard, but being away from those that have helped shape who I am, will be harder over time. I have encouraged them all to visit, some I've told to actually move west. I guess I shouldn't be greedy about the opportunity that I already have. But I will! Just like everything that has to happen in order for me to drive away, the dominoes that fall must be in place first. I can only influence my own circumstances. Twenty-five things off the list, twenty-five more added.
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